Posted by fallsfall on May 26, 2005, at 7:38:07
In reply to Goodbye..., posted by Pfinstegg on May 25, 2005, at 22:21:57
Might I be bold enough to ask if perhaps this is a manifestation of work you are doing in therapy now? You have come and gone in the past according to your needs, and that has seemed to work out OK. We miss you when you are on sabatical, but are always happy to see you return.
I see with Daisy that she will start pulling back from her therapist (because she is feeling too clingy), and simultaneously she pulls back from me and from Babble. Your post sounds unusual to me - not like the pfinstegg I'm used to hearing. What is going on in your life right now? Could Babble be another instance of how you are feeling in general? Can we help you work on it?
Can you tell us why it feels so lonely and painful? Sometimes I think you are a little farther down the road than other people here - sort of blazing the trail. I could see why that would feel lonely. But perhaps if you could talk about it with us, you would find that there really are people here who can understand you, and who can offer things to you.
So I guess that I would echo what the others have said - that you are a valuable member of this community and would be missed so much. But I also want to ask if there is a way that we can help you through this.
Falls.
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