Posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 14:35:33
In reply to Nope » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on May 23, 2005, at 14:26:56
Ok. Maybe what you are saying is what is right for you. I was perhaps coming at it from a more general perspective.
I have never obsessed about anyone in my life if it was not some sort of attraction. Maybe once when I was a kid, I used to obsess about my teacher and she was a lady. But other than that, I don't remember ever obsessing about anyone in a non sexual way. So it is very hard for me to comprehend it. I have liked lot of people (men and women) non sexually. I have couple of male friends who I am not attracted to at all - just good friends. But I don't obsess about them. In fact I don't even think about them. So it feels very weird to me that someone can obsess about a person in this way.
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