Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 19:26:20
In reply to Re: Woke up this morning (cue blues chords) » pinkeye, posted by Tamar on May 12, 2005, at 14:02:58
You never know what is going to happen in the future years from now.
So there is not too much value in worrying about what will happen.
And you don't have any control over it anyway. For all you know, you might completely forget your ex T by that time - or you might like someone else, or you might get to see him again in the future when you can afford more therapy.
I know it is hard to come to terms with things like that, and especially with Ts.. but that is the best you can do. Really there is not much you can do about it. The relationship is controlled by him. He lets you keep in contact or not, and if one person doesn't like to keep in contact, then what can you really do about it? And from his point of view, he probably has a family and a wife himself, as you do, and it is hard for him to perhaps keep in touch with every woman client that he meets. Atleast that is what I try to think when I feel bad about my exT.
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