Posted by pinkeye on May 2, 2005, at 19:34:36
In reply to Re: Is Babble keeping me regressed? » pinkeye, posted by alexandra_k on May 2, 2005, at 19:23:53
Thanks Alexandra. I get what you are saying. I think I am at the same stage. Where I have realized it is all about my dad. It was a huge step for me. But now I have to figure out how to minimize the longing that I have for an impossible relationship with my dad. It was not my mistake, it was more the way my dad led me to believe it should be. But I am the one who pays the price for it.
I think you are right, just not coming to babble is not the answer, because this longing is going to be there. And it is going to manifest in different forms.
> I get that my transference is about my father.
> But I still grieve.
> After a while (or I should say at times)
> I am not grieving about my t
> So much as about my father.
> Thats not resolved.
> No way.
> Maybe that is where you are at as well???
> Maybe it would be helpful to talk about your father issues more?
> Maybe people can help you start to make those
> (the root of it all)
> Better as well???
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