Posted by Tamar on May 2, 2005, at 18:05:12
In reply to Sticky situation friends and therapy, posted by rubenstein on May 2, 2005, at 17:43:01
I think it's OK for you to tell him, but if you do you should tell him you know she used to see him. Then you can focus on *your* issues about the situation without worrying about distractions like whether he knows you know he knows...
But I don't think you need to tell her you spoke to him about it. Just keep a clear focus on your own issues about the whole thing. Your therapy is for *you*, and is confidential, so you're not betraying her by mentioning her.
That's my two cents!
Tamar
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