Posted by Daisym on March 1, 2005, at 11:01:45
In reply to Why do bad sessions always follow good?, posted by Dinah on March 1, 2005, at 2:32:10
I wish I knew the answer to that question! I know it is true, perhaps neither psyche can tolerate the intensity or the moon and stars shift, who knows?
For me, I pull back. When I've had a really good session or a very intense one, I feel very connected and taken care of. And then, as the days go by, I realize that he can't be with me "all the time" and I pull inside again, taking care of myself. I don't want to miss him, so the wall goes back up. And then it is between us at the next session.
I also have this theory about it not being my turn. I just allow that some other client is having the "great" session today and that my turn will come around again at some point.
*sigh* There should be a rule book.
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