Posted by Susan47 on February 24, 2005, at 9:59:14
In reply to Re: Tenderness and Savagery » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on February 24, 2005, at 8:19:50
They definitely do, when they have no place to go. I don't mind the emotion as long as there's a suitable object for them. It's having an unsuitable object that hurts, for me. Suitable object means I can discuss my feelings with the person I'm having them for. It doesn't mean they respond in kind, it just means they understand and accept. Being accepted by the object of desire is important. Being rejected, in whatever way, is destructive, really destructive. I'm trying to overcome that destruction and maintain my integrity.
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