Posted by alexandra_k on February 24, 2005, at 0:45:50
In reply to Re: feelings about T, posted by JLynn on February 21, 2005, at 15:01:31
Yeah, it makes sense. Stuff like that is hard. I don't think it is unethical to keep up that sort of relationship with your old t. But it is probably not so good that you don't feel so good about it. It would be nice if you could talk to your new t about it so then you don't have to feel like you are hiding anything. If she responds acceptingly about it then it may help you feel more attached to your new t.
Maybe bring it up with your old t first? Or your new one if you could manage it. I personally find that if I take little risks with things that are hard and find that they respond positively then I have more trust in them and feel more attached to them and can take bigger risks with them.
Attachment is frightening to me. But I guess the only way I will ever be able to work through that is to allow myself to get attached to someone who is willing to help me through that.
I don't know.
But I think I understand how hard it is. I would find it hard myself.
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