Posted by B2chica on February 16, 2005, at 10:31:10
In reply to Re: remember sex question, well...., posted by annierose on February 16, 2005, at 8:07:23
i guess i didn't feel terribly bad about it cuz with my 'issues' with women, in the back of my mind i didn't expect anything...or expected as much as i got. but it also really reinforced that i'm doing the right thing in going to see the other one as soon as i can.
Besides. i don't tend to trust people in general, so i say things fairly vague so that i can come up with quick responses to back track. (i have a permanent back door)
-but i Thank you for reinforcing that i Should be able to talk to my T about sex. cuz when she brought up that sex therapist topic i thought gosh...i talked about a sex issue with my last T and he was fine with it, never mentioned going to a 'specialist'... but i must admit she put some doubts about discussing it.
infact, the more i think about it...it's really stupid. cuz HOW many people have issues with sex...Many! you would think that a majority of her patients would bring up the issues at one time or another...
oh well.
boy do i wish i could get started already with that other T.
the count down is three weeks now... that's only three more sessions with her. and i'm bringing hubby in tonight. My goal would be for him to continue to see her then i can go to other...boy that would be ideal.
maybe burn some insence to offer up prayer for that one folks.
Thanks again.
b2c.
> Sorry that didn't turn out the way any of us expected. I was so surprised to read your post. I would have felt humilated. You seemed to be handling her reaction better than I would have done. I think it says more about her than you.
> SEX is something you should be able to talk about in session. Good Luck with future conversations with the new T in March
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