Posted by mair on February 15, 2005, at 21:35:19
In reply to Re: benefits of crying ?, posted by LittleGirlLost on February 14, 2005, at 14:52:06
I can't cry either and maybe because of that, it's something I value highly. I've just come to believe that I would be some much better off if I had that release, and it would make me feel somehow more human or caring.
I have cried at the funerals of friends who weren't particularly close, but still haven't been able to cry over the death last fall of my father. I can tear up in a movie, but I can't even get close to crying in front of my T regardless of how wrenching or painful the topic.
I think if I can ever get there with her, I'll feel that I've crossed some great divide - either that, or I'll be horrified and embarrassed.