Posted by Miss Honeychurch on December 19, 2004, at 21:13:15
In reply to Interesting dilemma, posted by judy1 on December 19, 2004, at 14:03:46
I have a feeling the realtionship would be a big let down. As of now, you only see what that pdoc wants you to see. This gives you plenty of time to idealize. Once you see him in the real world and were granted access to him as a whole, I think it would be very disappointing. And, even though you wouldn't be client/pdoc anymore, I almost sort of think he would always have the upper hand in the relationship, I don't think it could ever really be equal.
Also, I think he is acting very ethically. Usually if these relationships are started, they lead to nothing but trouble. Thank your lucky stars he is the way he is.
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