Posted by daisym on December 17, 2004, at 18:59:57
In reply to Re: i'm a crybaby, posted by shrinking violet on December 17, 2004, at 17:43:13
There is nothing worse than feeling alone. I've said this many times. There is immense pain in remembering stuff, but the deal-breaker is the loneliness. I think you have to hang on minute by minute.
I'm pretty sure that your feelings right now are coloring your memories of how much your therapist cared for you and how real your relationship was. It is OK to miss her. But you need to also allow a connection to another to form. It doesn't sound like you've found the right one yet.
Maybe this weekend you could do something that provides some nurturing for your soul. If you can swing it, go to a senior citizen's home and read Christmas stories or sing songs. These people will appreciate every part of you. You need to know that you matter.
You matter here and to me.
Hugs,
Daisy
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