Posted by crushedout on November 30, 2004, at 21:05:59
In reply to Re: The next segment of my saga (very long), posted by BigFish on November 30, 2004, at 14:02:18
Thanks, Bigfish. I feel pretty good about what I did. I'm realizing that I gave her so much power, and in one fell swoop, I basically just snatched it all back. I mean, she still has power over me but I've taken away all (or almost all) of her opportunities to exercise it. So, she's effectively rendered powerless over me. And therefore, I've taken the power back. It's pretty exciting sometimes when I can realize this on a gut level.There's also obviously some reason I *liked* giving her that power so there will be something that I will miss about not having that anymore, I bet.
But it is empowering. And it's good to do the right thing for yourself. I recommend it. And I'm honored to be an inspiration to anyone. Thanks for the vibes. (I actually don't think I could have done any of this without you guys and your vibes.)
:)
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