Posted by gardenergirl on November 29, 2004, at 23:10:28
In reply to Re: OK, this time I really did it. » tryingtobewise, posted by crushedout on November 29, 2004, at 22:53:01
I second what Kim said. Ya done good, girl!
I'm so happy you have made this decision. I can't imagine how hard it's been. I'm glad you have been able to get support and consultation with T2. (lol, I always think of the Terminator when I see T2).
And I do think I understand your ambivalence about her calling. Any reply is reinforcing, but it certainly seems like she is acting out of her own needs at this point. I know I've had some clients terminate, and I would have LOVED to talk with them to find out their feelings about how things did or did not go, but that is not my right. It is a privilege. And for many reasons, T's don't always get to find out how everything turns out.
You are doing what feels best for you, and that is healthy. You can do it! Great job! Go crushed, go! (Just a little cheerleading thrown in).
Take care,
gg
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