Posted by mandinka on October 14, 2004, at 18:39:24
In reply to To Go or Not to Go see T??, posted by Speaker on October 14, 2004, at 8:07:59
Yeah, the pain and fear of being abandoned by your T when you allow yourself to get emotionally attached to him or her is gruelling but there really is no way around it. Only this connection will allow the natural child inside you (your true self) to emerge. Please don't quit. It took you a long time to work for this closeness you have with your T now. That's 90 percent of the work in therapy - getting to the place where you feel really accepted. Don't throw it away. This is the vehicle of heeling.
Hang in there, Speaker!
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