Posted by JenStar on July 16, 2004, at 17:29:51
In reply to Re: Transference - choices JenStar, posted by vwoolf on July 16, 2004, at 16:44:23
hi VWoolfe,
It's hard to offer advice when I don't even really know you! I just kind of blurt out whatever seems to make most sense to me. I agree that therapy should be challenging & take you out of the safety zone without taking you TOO far too fast. I also agree that you should have a very good relationship with the person.Maybe neither the current T nor the "new guy" are the right ones for now? It def. sounds like gave (are giving it) a good shot and really trying to make it work with the current T. But if SHE'S not really getting you or helping you, maybe it's time to move on.
I don't know you well, but I still care about you & want things to work out for you. That's why I was so vehement about not going with the 'cute one' -- he might be more trouble than he's worth!
Anyway, best of luck. Take care!
JenStar
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