Is it ok to ask this to your T?

Posted by pinkeye on July 14, 2004, at 18:25:20

Is it ok to ask your T if he remembers you/cares for you? Or will it be interpreted as being too clingy or needy?
Ideally I would even like to ask if he thinks of me, or even if he is attracted to me as well, but I don't know how appropriate that would be.
Mine has never given me any reassurance. And from knowing him, he is not so caring or warm. He likes to keep it official but genuinely helpful. Even when I have expressed lot of pain, his approach has always been, "Ok, So is there something we can do about it?". It has never been like "Oh, I am sorry that you are suffering so much".
And couple of times when I asked for reassurance he hasn't given me.
Pinkeye.

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Is it ok to ask this to your T? pinkeye 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? » pinkeye Raindancer 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? » pinkeye Dinah 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? » Raindancer pinkeye 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? pinkeye 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? » pinkeye daisym 7/14/04
Re: Is it ok to ask this to your T? shortelise 7/15/04

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