Posted by gardenergirl on June 20, 2004, at 23:18:19
In reply to Re: My therapist is agreeable » Aphrodite, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2004, at 10:45:18
Dinah,
That's a nice visual image...Regarding your parents, at first I didn't think it was such a good idea. I'm not sure why. I think I wasn't sure what your goal/wish for it was. I know in my case I would have a couple reasons for not wanting to invite her...first, she really doesn't get my depression and therapy. So I'm not sure she would agree. She may fear that we are "checking her out."
Also, I think I would harbor a secret wish that some "moment" would happen and things would get much better. And that would be an unrealistic expectation.
So that's mainly why I wouldn't do it with my mom. I have to admit, I had a similar reaction as your T, wondering why now? But that may be just T training or instinct or something. :)
I hope it goes well for you, I really do. I think you are really brave for it, cause it would scare me to pieces with my Mom, I think.
Or, I would worry that he would like her better than me, because she can be quite charming in her superficial way. sigh. I know that's irrational. But still in there, I guess.
Take care,
gg
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