Posted by DaisyM on May 6, 2004, at 11:40:42
In reply to Contemplating divorce, posted by tabitha on May 6, 2004, at 1:48:06
Change is a part of all relationships so what once was comfortable might shift and be less so. I always think back to Dinah's post about fighting for the relationship...battling to preserve it in the midst of change, yours and hers.
It seems that you might want to pull out of group for awhile in order to strengthen your connection with your Therapist. I have no group experience but I can't imagine sharing my feelings, pain AND my Therapist at the same time. I totally get what you mean by the lifeline, it often feels essential yet decompensating at the same time.
I think you should talk to her about all this. In the meantime I wish you strength and peace.