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Re: Would it be ok for my T to hold me? » crushedout

Posted by fallsfall on April 24, 2004, at 21:52:15

In reply to Re: Would it be ok for my T to hold me? » terrics, posted by crushedout on April 24, 2004, at 20:50:49

>Yeah, I know I would want more, but I also think it might be healing. And maybe I wouldn't? Anyway, I'm gonna ask her.

Crushed,

You say "I *KNOW* I would want more"

You say "I *THINK* it *MIGHT* be healing"

You say "*MAYBE* I wouldn't"

So the negative thing is a sure thing, and the positive things are only possibilities.

Somehow that doesn't add up (in my Mathematician's brain) to a good risk.

I would encourage you to talk to her about *why* you want her to hold you. But that is different from asking her *to* hold you.

Please be careful.

 

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