Posted by rs on April 16, 2004, at 15:54:13
In reply to Suddenly freaking about termination, posted by tinydancer on April 16, 2004, at 10:55:58
Hi. Please do not worry about terminating now. Your T sounds like he will be there as long as you need him. Will share with you if ok. Am DID. Saw the same T for about 6 years once a week. Anyway about 3 -4 yrs ago he moved from here to CO which is miles miles away. It was awful. He had not further contact etc. Hurt in many ways. Especially a few of the small ones due to him also being a child PhD so just imagine how much they liked him. Anyway did not go to another T for a long time. Stared again last summer after getting into a gambling problem from escape and denial. Difficult it was. But today yes still miss old T but realize do not need him anymore. Finally found courage to call him last week. Left a voice mail and he called back within an hour. How the little ones enjoyed hearing his voice. He did not forget me. Was his first DID. Asked if he is working with other clients now with DID and he is. He asked if that hurt hearing that. Said no and happy for them but jealous. Anyway told him how it hurt much about no contact etc. He agreed that he should of done it different. He said could call anytime but will not again. T knows all about this and he was supportive about makeing the call. Anyway you know this new T is so much better in many many ways. So please do not worry about that now. If it really hurts to think that please talk to your T about it. And it is very easy to become dependent on them in many ways. Think about how many different thoughts and feelings that go on. We need our T much but nothing that is inappropriate or passing boundaries. Like him much. like you metioned about being the center of your life. Here its because who else really really talks with all and is getting to know of all of us? Know here live a very lonely life in some ways. Sorry if this is long and hope it supports you in some way. Please write if I can help you with this in anyway. Have read your other posts.
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