Posted by Racer on April 9, 2004, at 13:22:06
In reply to I dropped the bomb on my doc (long and scattered), posted by platinumbride on April 9, 2004, at 1:04:42
Hey, not a problem at all jumping into my string. That's what makes this place a conversation -- you know, conversational give and take.
I'm with fallsfall: it doesn't matter how you did it, what counts is that you *did* it. If you had to leave a voice mail message, you had to leave a voice mail message. Sure, someone out there might have waited to see him and said it face to face -- but that person is obviously unnatural (<<joke) Here's the Racer Revelation: what you do counts for more than how you do it. You said something that you needed to say, in a way it was possible for you to say it. That counts as A Good Thing, so you can take credit for it. (I'd give you the Racer Seal Of Approval, but it eats an awful lot of herring...)
So, congratulations, and good luck. Interview a couple of therapists, and find one you can work with. Remember: this really is about you, it's not a give and take relationship, so you can reject someone without guilt.
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