Posted by Fallen4myT on March 23, 2004, at 10:43:43
In reply to Re: Therapist Attachment - Help » Fallen4myT, posted by lonelygirl on March 23, 2004, at 9:44:49
lonelygirl I didn't suggest the other books...In SESSION WAS GREAT BTW...I suggested the one I did *because* it talks about the 4 styles of attatchment and really delves deep into each. I think its a harder book than the two you are reading..to read BUT it covers how and why one attatches the way we do. This includes pushing people away.
It is not your T's job as you said to *like* you. It IS his job to help you over unhealthy patterns. Really beg borrow or almost steal the book I think it will help you long past May. Also your T will maybe offer phone sessions, email etc... you know, till you tell him about your quandry he will not be able to show you that he JUST MIGHT CARE FOR ..YOU...You are likeable,,heck I like you. Tell him you are having problems with ending the sessions and must cause of the move and see what happens...I think I got my book at B&N but read it even if you have the library interloan it. The book makes sessions look lame because it goes more into how you as a person would find themself feeling attactched and NOT attacthed to others...Now I must go fox up..see ya on here later :)
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