Posted by Karen_kay on January 8, 2004, at 20:55:19
In reply to get a life!, posted by justyourlaugh on January 8, 2004, at 9:13:44
Hello jyl.. my boyfriend is the same way. And the only thing that I can tell you is to have faith. I tell myself that by helping myself, the relationship I have with my boyfriend will improve. And even if his problems don't, I'll be better prepared to handle them once I'm not as anxious, nervous, neurotic, (______) fill in the blank with the adjective that fits you best, these are my personal *quirks.* (WINK*)
If what you are doing is holding you together, then by all means continue girl! Do what you know in your heart is best for you. People who aren't in therapy and who aren't seeing the benefits of medications don't understand what it is like. Those of us on this board do. So, the next time he tells you to "Get a life" turn on your heels, log on line, type in dr bob's website, and vent (but, be careful of your language of course :)... We understand and we'll listen, ALWAYS!!! Do what you know is working, though we sometimes wonder, and know that you'll get through. We know you will!
poster:Karen_kay
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