Posted by shar on November 26, 2003, at 19:23:41
In reply to New Question from a Therapist, posted by DaisyM on November 26, 2003, at 19:08:48
This reminds me of my expressing anger at my therapist. It was very important for me to learn, that with at least one person, I could be angry at them and they wouldn't go away. Or, vice versa.
It doesn't always feel good all the time, but, to have a continuing relationship, sometimes we may ask for and NOT get what we want...and still have all of the good things that exist within that relationship.
Or...something like that. I hope you get the idea. If my therapist said 'only call once between sessions' I would respect that (as I'm sure you would!), but I would have a ton of questions...Like what about flexibility--what if I need to talk to you twice? Or three times? Or, what if it's a second call but more serious (like I feel suicidal)? I guess I'd want to know where I stand.
Shar
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