Posted by Rigby on September 2, 2003, at 18:10:14
In reply to Re: I Agree With Dinah » crushedout, posted by crushedout on September 2, 2003, at 16:26:58
She may be teasing you to prompt transference--my therapist egged me on a few times like that as I think she wanted me to dump about my feelings. A crush is fine I think as long as you can work through it *with* your therapist to find out where it's coming from. If you keep it a secret and spend your time (and money!) playing a game of "does she like me" it gets not only frustrating but you wonder why you're *paying* for this frustration! And you're keeping secrets from, again, a person you're paying to know and help you.
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