Posted by galkeepinon on August 23, 2003, at 15:00:27
In reply to Re: Could anyone please give me some advice? » galkeepinon, posted by fallsfall on August 22, 2003, at 9:37:58
Thank you fallsfall, it's probably too hard to explain online I think I'll have to figure this one out on my own lol I really appreciate your help!! :-) thnaks so much. I think her email just made me think about a lot~~~which may be a good thing, the way I act and behave, etc. (I wasn't a criminal or anything!) But also what I want in life. I heard once that we teach people how we want to be treated~~have you ever heard that? I think I understand it. I'm learning so much in this life, just trying to get it *right*
I still haven't figured out what I'm going to do and I still haven't emailed her back. Maybe I'll write more later.
Thanks again:-)
> Without seeing the whole email it is hard to tell. But she said "if *THIS* is not acceptable to you...". What is the "this"? Is it acceptable to you? It almost sounds like she is trying to set some limits - to tell you the bounds that she needs for the friendship. People do need to do this (thought I wish they didn't!!). If this is what you think she is saying, then you need to decide if you can live with her limits.
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> After all those years, this is really hard for you to hear. I'm sorry.
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