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Re: also in love with therapist » stebby

Posted by Dinah on August 12, 2003, at 2:45:08

In reply to Re: also in love with therapist » Dinah, posted by stebby on August 11, 2003, at 10:02:03

I was thinking about what you said about your husband. My husband and I were talking about this just the other day, after I read a book that mentioned the protential problem of intimacy with the therapist replacing intimacy with other important people in your life.

I had already solved that problem by sharing with him an overview of some of what we talked about in therapy. And go into greater detail with him than with my therapist on topics that he is more familiar with than my therapist. That way he doesn't feel excluded, and I'm not in fact excluding him. I don't share those things he doesn't want to hear, but things like my relationship with my parents or what's going on in work or how my illness might be affecting him. All those things lead to late night, after my son is asleep, intimate talks that we both enjoy. And he talks about what's on his mind as well, with work and family. So I actually use the therapy to be more intimate with my husband.

Maybe if you're able to do that, it would lessen some of the intensity of your feelings for your therapist.

 

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