Posted by Dinah on May 9, 2003, at 2:41:21
In reply to Re: Like for instance.. » noa, posted by Tabitha on May 8, 2003, at 23:36:09
> I'm trying to learn another way.
Good for you, Tabitha!
Whether your therapist is right or wrong, you know your old way of relating didn't work for you. Accomodation and resentment doesn't sound like fun either. But I know from personal experience how tough it is to change old patterns.
> I don't know what it really means from his perspective..
That did occur to me. It's bound to have different symbolism for him. Did he offer to explain it's meaning to him, from his perspective? Not that his perspective is more valuable than yours. But it's still interesting to get to know each other that way.
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