Posted by asya on August 10, 2007, at 21:19:36
All,
This is taking a lot of courage for me to admit, but I haven't been able to find help in any other way. I am 28 yrs old and a virgin. I consider myself your typical single professional gal. I have basically done everything but actually have intercourse. Why I haven't isn't my issue. My issue is that I want to go to an OBGYN but am too ashamed after what happened at my doctor's office a few year's ago when i was 24. The nurse prac. tried to do a pap smear and it hurt so bad and my hymen was still intact so they did't do it. Then the nurse said with a laugh, "go have sex and come back." I felt so humiliated. I come from a conservative culture and just haven't met the right person to have sex with. I am looking for a way to find a sensitive OBGYN in my area (tri-state New England0 -- who will be compassionate and non-judgmental about my concerns. Please help. If you have any ideas for how to obtain such a referral i would be grateful.Thanks!
Asya
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