Posted by Kar on June 4, 2002, at 22:27:07
In reply to Re: Pre-wedding blues » Kar, posted by Greg on June 4, 2002, at 17:45:59
Hey Greg- Yeah, I wish I could have told him that. As I told Beardie, I was somewhat immobilized. The priest said that they needed to ensure that I was capable of making the "conscious decision" to marry. WTF. He spoke with us for 40 minutes that night as I answered question after question, rather lucidly and competently, thank you very much. You'd think that would've been enough...
My fiance thinks that it's a crock and understands why I'm so ticked...but he's the analytical one and I'm firey. He said that we probably don't have much we can do if we want to get married there, and he's right. He argued it some at the time of the meeting: "Why do we need a note if she's here telling you in person...". I feel like if we had seen it coming we'd have been better armed. Just ain't fair, dernit...
Thanks for your kind words,
karen
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