Posted by Lou Pilder on August 25, 2013, at 4:57:11
In reply to Problematic behaviors » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on May 27, 2013, at 9:28:17
> FWIW, I don't hate Lou. I sometimes am angry with Lou, but I don't hate him. Believing you have been divinely called to Babble to free people from medication drugs (if I understand Lou's position correctly) isn't something to hate someone for. Neither, really, is interpreting facts in light of that belief in divine calling.
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> Using words like "hate" may distract the emphasis from problematic behaviors - behaviors that are problematic not only to posters and not only in an administrative sense, but possibly problematic to the poster as well. I had always liked the fact that it was problematic behaviors that were addressed by Admin on Babble, not posters or feelings about posters.
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> I think the addressing of the most problematic behaviors might actually reduce anger and help in the sort of community building that would, IMO, be important to Babble. If you were open to it, perhaps the community could come together to create useful but fair guidelines to increase rather than decrease inclusiveness, while decreasing (current) problematic behaviors.D,
You wrote,[...using words like "hate" may distract the emphasis from problematic behaviors... addressing the most problematic behaviors...decreasing problematic behaviors...].
I could be thought to be the subject person here in your post.
What you have written about me could put me in a false light for the problematic behaviors are not directly specified. You did state that my behaviors could be thought to be, {...believing that I have been divinely called here to free people...]. It could be thought, IMO, that you are saying that the behavior is this, but that you do not hate me for it, but it is problematic.
What I write concerning what you have written here that could be thought to be my posts from the divinely called perspective, comes from a Jewish perspective as revealed to me. I do not think that the Jewish perspective as revealed to me that my posts concerning the divinely called aspect here is to be considered to be problematic, for IMO that could have the potential to stigmatize me and decrease the respect and regard and confidence in which I am held and induce hostile opinions and feelings about me. This is because there are in any group the potential to have those that are in a subset of the population to be {more-easily-persuaded}. What I see here as to what you have written about me could have the potential IMO to arouse anti-Semitic feelings, for different points of view are accepted here and I do not think that anyone's point of view, including mine from a Jewish point of view, (redacted b respondent), "problematic". And more than that, without a citation of a post from you to substantiate what you write about me, readers do not have my response to you and then lack my response to you so they can make their own determination as to what you write about me is true or not, nor do I have the opportunity to respond to any claim by you concerning as to what I write is "problematic" or not.
Lou
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