Posted by 10derheart on March 28, 2012, at 15:29:22
In reply to Re: Lou's response-psowlisah, posted by zazenducke on March 28, 2012, at 12:35:12
FWIW...(likely very little)
>>Not being allowed to post about the Nazis. The rule of 3. Being the subject of Bob's question to you about your feelings about his post. Not being the subject of Bob's expressed concern about his feelings about others' posts.
I'm pretty sure all posters,not just Lou, are discouraged/not allowed to post about Nazis (but this is a newer request/prohibition, so I dunno quite how Dr. Bob handles this....haven't seen it happen enough...)
The "rule of 3" also applies to all posters.
Dr. Bob has questioned others posters in the past about their feelings about the post(s) of others.
I (and I'd guess others) have experienced "not being the subject of Bob's expressed concern about his feelings about others' posts." Most definitely this - on numerous occasions. I can't recall exactly, but I believe Dr. Bob might have asked me to consider the possibility that, in any given situation, his *not* expressing concern about my feelings about others posts (to or about me) didn't mean he didn't care, but just that he was focusing on something else at that time.
Not that is made me feel any better, necessarily.
Not that I'm even 100% sure I understand what you meant.Maybe Dr. Bob was sometimes suggesting being hurt was "my choice," as you put it to Scott. Didn't often agree, since there must be some baseline or we couldn't have civility here based on not posting things that *could* lead others to feel accused or put down......more like my particular skin was too thin at that moment. In Bob's opinion. Objective? Subjective? {shrug} With feelings it gets dicey....
Ahh...but who knows anything, really? Not me.
Still in the midst of your final flybye? ;-)
MDD (presently in complete remission); ADD-Inattentive type; mild anxiety (not fomally dx'd)
Meds: Strattera 80 mg q day
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