Posted by Dinah on December 10, 2009, at 8:20:52
In reply to Re: editing posts after submission, posted by Dr. Bob on December 10, 2009, at 5:05:32
> > this would be a way to lessen or avoid hurt feelings. I don't even understand that.
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> > Dinah
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> The idea is the latter is an I-statement, so it would avoid hurt feelings if the other poster hadn't seen the original and lessen them if they had.Repeating what you've said does not help me understand what you've said.
You appear to be at the broken record stage, which is a boundary setting way of responding, not a discussion way of responding.
I see no point in continuing a conversation once it reaches this stage. I should have realized there was no point in continuing this from the beginning. This was the next time, and again I behaved the same way in the hope that the outcome would be different. Therapy obviously has not taken for me.
I don't know why you're so set on this, but you are. So why bother? Nadezda was right.
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