Posted by Sigismund on April 5, 2008, at 16:13:09
In reply to Lou's reply to Sigismund-nough? » Sigismund, posted by Lou Pilder on April 5, 2008, at 15:51:18
I was thinking of Bob's response to Happyflower.....
> I think almost everytime I was blocked it was because I [responded to feeling hurt] by someone or something to begin with. ... Hurt goes both ways. I have been told I hurt someone bad, but so was I. I don't go around hurting people without some action that provoked it. I have to learn not to let myself be provoked so much.
Those cycles of hurt can be really destructive. And hard to break!
> one thing I have learned from [Dinah] is forgiveness and understanding.
The deputies and I can as a last resort block people, but I'd much prefer to see posters help each other to break those cycles. Or, even better, to be forgiving and understanding and to break them themselves.
Like you did with your corrections, thanks.
..........Especially the second part.