Posted by muffled on January 17, 2007, at 23:42:18
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, something better needs to be done, posted by Deneb on January 17, 2007, at 23:00:26
> Are you talking about me? Do people want to get me blocked? I don't think I pressured anyone. I simply write that I would *feel* suicidal, I didn't threaten.
> If I had threatened I would have wrote: I will kill myself if you don't do X. Can we let go of this now and move on? Is this going to haunt me for the rest of my life?
**Deneb, I dunno, but the moment has passed. I would hope there's not a retroactive block really. Or not a long one if so. I dunno what could happen. I think the situation IS an example of something that needs to change. I can agree with that.
And I don't remmebr the actual post, but I am sure you don't truly intend to harm. I think mebbe its a way you cope in dealing with people, and its not good, but you HAVE improved no doubt. However this IS a mental health website, and its starting to dawn on me, why the rules are the way they are. (NOT that I agree with ALL of them) But this is a chance to learn to find better ways perhaps of expressing frustration etc.
Sometimes, lotsa times, lessons are painful it would seem.
But you hurt, and learn, and hopefully move on a better person for it.
So no offense to you Denb, your lotsa fun.
But I am afraid I would have to put MHO on Bob making it clear WHAT the policy is, and what happened in this situ. And was something missed that should have been addressed.
IMHO suicide is a sad, terrible, final, painful to SO many, thing. It is the ultimate of sadness and defeat. I can't express with words.....
And I truly don't think its something to bandy about lightly..or even semi seriously...its deadly serious...and so so sad :(