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Re: :-(

Posted by notfred on January 3, 2007, at 14:55:00

In reply to :-( » notfred, posted by muffled on January 3, 2007, at 13:30:22

"BUT, there needs to be more change, and I am trying very hard to try and make Bob understand my POV as I am not the only one who feels the way I do."


Well I think the problem is not that Dr Bob does not understand the hurt some feel when blocked.
People can hear you but choose to not take actions
based on what they have heard. I think a different
tatctic is needed in this case.

"I feel very strongly bout the length of blocks."

Yes I agree the way length works is having an unintended effect of giving longer and longer blocks to persons who seem key to these kind of boards. Minor offences should not advance the length factor at all or to a lessor degree.
I like Dinah's concept of a hierarchy of offences.


"And some blocks I just do not understand :("

I think you have to accept that 2 people will sometimes see things differently.

"I feel part of the problem is that we feel rather NOT heard by Bob often times. His answers are often confusing and just lead to more questions."


Dr Bob gets a lot of questions. A whole lot. Then
each answer is picked a part and generates more questions. In some cases longer answers might cut down on the number of questions generated. But not here. Not by a long shot.


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