Posted by Jakeman on June 17, 2006, at 1:30:23
In reply to Re: the power to hurt » Dr. Bob, posted by muffled on June 14, 2006, at 15:08:58
Dr. Bob, would you reconsider this block on Estella? Again, why is it moot?
warm regards, Jake
> > What I hear is that posters feel (1) hurt and angry when their friends are hurt (for example, by being blocked) and (2) powerless when I insist on doing something they're opposed to. Is that close?
>
> ***Well.... not really. Hey this reflecting stuff is cool. Its not just about FEELINGS. Feelings are merely signals that something else is going on (ha, my T would be dancing if she could read that!). Go beyond them and see what we are getting at. WHY the feelings come up.
> Think on that one, and GG posted a good post.
> Thanks.
> Y'know for a p-doc you sure are missing the boat. mebbe you should come talk to me Bob. I'll straighten you out. HA!
>
> > > Are you willing to reconsider this block?
> > >
> > > Jake
> >
> > Yes, but my mind hasn't been changed yet. And I think it's kind of moot now.
> >
> > Bob
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> ***IT IS NOT MOOT. You could lift it now. You could say sorry, maybe I shouldn't have been so stuck on rules. You could say I AM REALY open to change, or NOT as the case may be)
> I wish I could understand you better... :-(
> It don't SEEM like you so bad....
> But I just dunno....
> Muffled
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