Posted by willow on February 10, 2001, at 22:09:31
In reply to Utilitarian view, posted by Rzip on February 10, 2001, at 17:59:55
of community exiles its weak ones? Not mine, thank goodness!
ACCEPTANCE ... FORGIVENESSI too put my community's needs above mine, which in turn gives me a better community thus actually helping myself out. BUT what do you do with someone who puts themself first? I believe with patience instead of force you can do a lot more good. And if you can't help don't stoke the fire! By cutting them off they're going to go into a real community acting out. Isn't this a much safer sounding board?
Just one of my many opinions!
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