Posted by baseball55 on January 8, 2013, at 18:43:03
In reply to Re: Why? » baseball55, posted by ChicagoKat on January 8, 2013, at 17:52:29
My husband wouldn't hurt a fly. He was just making a point about how stressful it was to live with me. He's really a pretty light-hearted guy, but my depression really put him under constant stress. And I had never been the sort of person to get depressed. I was moody but always snapped out of it Then for three years, I could barely hold on to my job, was in and out and in and out of hospitals. He was on the phone all the time with my p-doc who would call him whenever he thought I was in danger. It was really hard on him. I am a lot better now, and he is better too.
> baseball,
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> You make an excellent point that when someone has a physical disease..heart disease, cancer, etc...they are still themselves personality wise. I know from experience that my extreme emotions and sever sobbing sessions scare my loved ones. I must keep this in mind.
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> But your husband had been plotting to kill you????? Are you safe??? That scares the hell out of me, I hope you are OK and not in danger!
> Kat
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