Posted by Dinah on October 22, 2012, at 7:59:13
In reply to Re: Choices... » Dinah, posted by phillipa on October 21, 2012, at 21:06:57
Well, keep an open mind about that. Try saying to yourself instead that you aren't ready to change at this time. That leaves the possibility that you will change when you're ready, no matter how you feel when you are ready. It might be when you're feeling better and have more resolve and energy. Or it might be when you're feeling bad enough that the pain and anxiety of the current situation outweighs the anxiety of change.
I'm not sure that you need to explain or apologize for not being ready. Someone is ready or they aren't. Others can respond to you or not, knowing that you may not be ready.
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