Posted by Lou Pilder on September 19, 2011, at 8:32:13
In reply to Re: Please visit me in chat, lonely :-( » Deneb, posted by SLS on September 19, 2011, at 7:29:01
> > Please try to accept me for who I am
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> Who are you, then? What is it that Deneb accepts about herself that she would like others to accept as well? Psychic pain? Social isolation? Stunted cognitive growth? Are you incapable of change? Don't count on me to remain silent and support any suicide plans that you may devise in the future. Under these circumstances, what or who you think you are is of no concern to me. I would try to save you, anyway. It is hard to accept a dead Deneb. It is also hard to accept a hurting Deneb.
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> > I'm so sorry.
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> I think that your saying, "I'm sorry" for your self-distructive behaviors is of little value to you or anyone else. You are a recidivist who remains content to make the same mistakes over and over again. I don't think it is important enough to you that you grow into a happy and functional adult. You are doomed to remain the same unless you do something different under the guidance of people who specialize in treating your condition.
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> I don't think you are losing friends at Psycho-Babble. People like you, and try to support you. I doubt that too many people are mad with you. It is more that they are frustrated and weary of trying to help you in vain.
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> I am not here to destroy you. Think about it. Why should I bother writing anything at all?
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> Today, your life begins anew with the rising of the sun. It is an opportunity to grow and make positive changes, both inside and out. It is up to you whether or not the sun sets on the old or on the new.
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> - ScottScott,
You wrote,[...she would like others to accept..stunted cognitive growth...are of no concern to me...your xxxx-yyyy behavior is of little value to you or anyone else...you are a zzzz who remains content to make the same wwww over and over...I don't think it's xxxx enough to you to grow into a happy and functional adult...you are doomed...they are frustrated and weary of trying to help you...it is up to you...].
I am unsure as to what you are wanting to mean here. If you could post answers to the following, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
A. What criteria did you use, if any, to question Deneb as to if she would like others to accept stunted cognitive growth?
B. By what authority, if any, do you use to question Deneb's cognitive growth?
C. Why is what Deneb thinks she is of no concern to you?
D. What criteria did you use to state that Deneb has self-destructive behaviors?
E. What criteria do you use to determine if a person is a recidivist?
F. How do you know if Deneb is {content} on making the same xxxx, and what are the xxxxs?
G. What makes you think as to if or if not it is or is not important to Deneb?
H. How do you know that Deneb is doomed to stay the same unless...? Could it not be that she could not remain the same by a way other than what you have prescribed that could be unbeknownst to you?
K. How do you know people are frustrated and weary?
L. How do you know that it is up to Deneb? Could not there be factors unbeknownst to you that could keep Deneb from making it up to her?
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Lou
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