Posted by your#1fan on March 4, 2008, at 23:48:12
In reply to Re: Im so upset right now » your#1fan, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2008, at 22:43:56
Gardengirl,
Im so sorry i didint repond to this post. That was irresponsible of me. But i must make it a fact that i repond to make sure that posters know that heard there advice.
Alrighty...
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<I'm sorry you're going through such distress right now. I've had experiences when I felt abandoned before, and I have had very strong emotional reactions to them. It's rough, I know. Maybe you can try to look at this as a service provider (your doctor) who has decided not to continue to provide you with the service you hired him for. That happens sometimes. It's a pain. But we find another and hire them instead. It's like the person who does your dry cleaning or cleans the gutters or cleans your teeth or makes the pizza. All can be replaced. All are involved with you to provide a service, not for a personal relationship. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
-thank you so much about the doctor, he completely did abandon me, he really just didnt want to go through the Liabilty hassle of that, so he just said "nope" sorry. Let's give a around of applause for his efforts...ok, boo!
THhanks for the know that im, rather having a hard time. I could, for the service provider, but its going to be hard time, it would take the "mature" man mask for a long until i get a real peronality.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<And I understand you have a rocky relationship with your mother and that she may have a personality disorder. That may or may not be the case, but from what you've described, her actions often do contribute to your stress.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
--my mom, well i think i put a little to much info about, but my mother does interfere with medical treatment. I love her much, she loves me but i cant let her control me and that is very hard becuse im still attached to her in that matter
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<So can finding activities which increase your sense of self esteem and self-confidence.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
yes, that is really true, i found if you work alot, you are really going to appriciate the freetime your going to have after you have off work, but if your a workaholic (which Racer told me not to be) you devote all your life really to work such as Catholic Priest ( but not all of them:)
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<You've mentioned "putting on" a mask or a different "personality" before to help you in situations where you don't feel comfortable. What if you tried on the "mask" of mature, independent young man? What would he do? What would he think, say, feel, and do? What advice would he give? How would he handle this? >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Something good happened, i told 3 couselors about this condition, its not a multiple personality, but it can seem like it because i start acting in a diffrent manner, what it is to cover up the scared little kid inside, its masked with so many ego's to protect it inside. I'm having to get thapry for it. But one man that i talked to, he's into forcenic counseling, and he was shocked that how behind I was because most of his clients he see's are doing bad stuff. I told him everything, how i act, what i do during the day, the two people in my head that help me out during the day.....because of bad social skills (not many close friends). He gave me something to look up on how to improve, im going to do it, but i admit, i am a procrastintor, but i will get things done. I just hope im not Procrastingnating my life.
Thanks Thanks for your regonization of my "imputs" in my posts.
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