Posted by yxibow on March 1, 2008, at 3:24:52
In reply to Re: Lonely life...ya..VERY lonely, posted by tepi on February 29, 2008, at 23:15:22
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> friday again and Im on the bed
> I will answer the post , althoguth I just see one for me I think
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> I not focused , Im on mexicoI also feel alone -- but everyone sometimes feels alone inside. Depression of course amplified.
I have suggested in the past as mentioned before by a previous poster depression support meetings, which do exist in parts of Mexico as an auxiliary of our NAMI. I can't promise that they will exist in your location but somehow there is surely a way of connection, through other ways too, religion if you are, or not, hobbies, all sorts of possibilities.
But as you said there was an event to go out to -- sometimes you just have to force yourself to do it, alone, because doing things reinforces that you are capable of it.I have a very hard case of extracting myself back to doing things, being in the public, because of my self-views and all the rare other things that come with my complex disorder.
Sometimes its better though to view what you can do, than what you can't. Turning the won'ts into the wills. Nobody every said it was easy, its a process.
As much as I'm afraid of death, I'm actually really afraid of life. Of living, and doing things and becoming the independent person I so want to be.
And these things are not impossible, but it takes determination, support, and therapy wherever you can get it.
I wish you a good weekend, there are good people here to talk to.
-- tidings
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