Posted by platinumbride on September 22, 2005, at 8:49:01
In reply to should I tell hubby???, posted by mellymel_d on September 21, 2005, at 21:53:50
I go through the same thing you describe, but I always tell him in the end. I do this because inevitably he starts to wonder why I withdraw and then snap at him. I feel badly when he gets that worried look - like "what have I done?", so I tell him it's not his fault. Yeah, he worries, but at least he knows he is not the cause.
Hoping you feel better....
Diane
> Should I be letting my husband just how depressed I'm feeling and how stressed out I am over all of these changes I'm going through??? I feel like it's not his fault I'm all screwed up so why should he have to deal with this...I just feel like I can't keep faking being alright, he see's something in my face but he just thinks I'm stressed over finances (which I am too)
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> I know I should be able to share this with him but I don't want to drag my family down with me. I wanna feel better so bad.
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