Posted by monkey-d on July 9, 2004, at 12:36:33
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years...My husband is very outgoing - always the social guy with a huge circle of friends...2 years ago, he was diagnosed and medicated for anxiety and mild depression...he was first taking 37.5 mg of Effexor XR and recently his dosage was bumped up to 75 mg...The past year, my husband and I struggled through an emotional time...his father battled a nasty lung cancer and subsequently died...and we both faced infertility problems...My husband and I are the best of friends - always capable of consoling one another and our communication is good...Three weeks ago, he suddenly stopped taking his medication...This was very apparent in his character and attitude...He now says he stopped taking his medication because it "masks" the real "him"...I MUST mention that his father was the world to him...mentor, friend, everything - so his dying was a huge loss for us both...On Monday - my husband left me...He claims he wants to "flush his life away and start all over"...says he was "never in love with me"...All of this I cannot understand or believe - it's as if it is all coming from an entirely different person...He has detached from his friends and family and emotionally zombie-like...I am not seeking marital help - I just want to understand what he's going through (he's not really communicating with me or anyone on any level other than trivial) and curious if this may be the result of his sudden non-use of Effexor XR...Any comments or experiences most welcome...
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