Posted by KimberlyDi on December 1, 2003, at 13:23:12
In reply to Re: Empower Me To Get Out Of This Doomed Relationship!, posted by raul on November 26, 2003, at 18:20:25
Raul,
You don't have any anger issues, do you? or bad experiences with women? His 1/2 the problem could be that he simply let's the relationship continue (after all, he did go back to her once).
Anyone *in* a relationship is 1/2 the dynamics of that relationship. He HAS the power to end the relationship but doesn't. Why does he feel compelled to take care of this female adult who doesn't take care of herself? I think he should drop her off at her parents doorstep or a women's shelter.
I think that if he understood why he couldn't cut her loose, he would be much closer to taking care of the problem than he would be for just calling her some 5-letter word and blaming it all on her.
So have a BRIGHT SHINY DAY Raul.
KDi in TX
> Why is he half the problem? Why not just call a bitch a bitch and leave it at that for once? Can't women ever admit that THEY may be at fault; not just men?
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