Posted by Rick on February 11, 2003, at 21:32:06
In reply to sucky orgasms, posted by den2 on February 8, 2003, at 4:16:12
> I can have good sex but my orgasms suck I don't feel anything when I ejaculate .. I am off antidepressants now and this just sucks. Is there a cure?
There can be about a bazillion reasons for this, and I sure don't claim to know them all. It may just get better with time, although you may see ups and downs.
I've often wondered why this has gone from a very frequent problem to a fairly infrequent problem for me. One of my top theories involves weight (which obviously couldn't apply in your case unless you're overweight)...in retrospect, the problem surfaced when I started putting on weight, and improved dramatically just about the time I shed a lot of pounds years later. But there were lots of other things going on around the same time I lost weight, so I can't be sure.
One odd thing I've noticed is that, on a day where I get very emotional about something (usually meaning anger), orgasms later that day tend to be much more intense. Weird...maybe anger raises my testosterone levels. And abstaining for awhile *does* seem to add to the intensity.
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