Posted by KarenB on April 17, 2000, at 10:36:00
In reply to Re: Am I gay?, posted by AndrewB on April 17, 2000, at 6:39:22
Dear Andrew,
I, for one am glad that the things I thought about between age 14 and 18 did not determine who I would be. The mind is a tricky thing, Andrew. Admiring your friend, thinking he looks cool, these thoughts are totally normal and do not mean you are gay. I look at women a lot myself, sometimes with admiration, sometimes with envy but I don't confuse those emotions with real sexual desire. I even had one homosexual experience myself when I was 17 (and drunk) but I am decidedly not gay today and have never been.
It's easy to get confused when you are just discovering who you are. But, don't let anyone talk you into being something you are not, especially during such a vulnerable stage in your life.
Karen
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