Posted by Brenda on March 1, 2000, at 18:49:26
In reply to Re: Noa med's, posted by Sarah on March 1, 2000, at 17:16:28
> Brenda, yes, co dependence isn't all that bad. I tend to be a nurturer, so I fall into it easily. As far as Vesper goes, I hope to goodness she finds the help she needs and gets it soon. It is hard not to take care of her all you can on this board. What could ever bring a person to her state? I shudder to think. I usually don't give advice to her, because I have never been there and really don't know what to do besides encourage her to seek professional help. It will ultimitly have to be her choice. Nothing we say or do will change her mind until she is ready. The encouragement is important for her, it lets her know she is not alone and is an important human being. I hope she starts on her journey to recovery soon. I know when I finally made up my mind to have mine, I became a new person. I still have a ways to go, but I am doing great. I just want everyone to have the wonderful awakening I have experienced. Hopefully, everyone here will get to that place. Life can be so beautiful!
Sarah - Thanks for the lovely words. My sentiments exactly. Also, thanks for telling me Vesper is a girl. I was kind of confused about that.
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